Divorces are always painful, more so for the girl.
They involve at least three planes –
Firstly, The Pain of having offered oneself to a man whom She dislikes.
Secondly, the Pain of the suffering of Mind at the hands of an unfriendly spouse and in-laws.
Thirdly, the Pain inflicted by the Future in the form of Family Acceptance, Societal Understanding, Male Terrorism, Rearing of children and Livelihood.
Divorce, is primarily a mismatching of Egos, Preferences, Expectations.
Marriages made after matching of horoscopes, or mutual love fail alike. Before marriage, the opposite parties were focussing only on their desired traits. It is only after the marriage, the undesirable traits become visible.
Kanchipuram Mahaperiyava has offered a solution to these Dilemmas.
It is a fashion today to consummate the couple on the first day of marriage, making it a gaudy ritual. MahaPeriyavasays, as per sastras, MARRIAGES MUST BE CONSUMMATED ONLY After ONE YEAR.( i.e., The Groom should follow Samvatsara diksha or Brahmacharya) It is during this period that the couple can iron out differences. If not OK, they will part, making it a Painless Separation.